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Pushing Our Boundaries

A few weeks ago, I had a life-changing conversation.
I *finally* met someone like me.
Him: a former US Army Combat Diver. šŸ¤æ
Me: a bookish thought leadership guy. šŸ“•

On the surface, we’re very different people.
But under the water line, we’re very similar.

He said: “Dolphins šŸ¬ are attracted to me,
because I produce weird electrical signals.”

Me: “You have a pacemaker?!”

Him: “Yes.”

Both of us have severe heart failure.
Without a pacer ā€“ we couldnā€™t walk across a room.
Let alone swim, run, or dive.

And for the next few hours,
we talked about livingā€”and thrivingā€”with heart failure.

He still SCUBA dives šŸ¤æ most days (itā€™s his job).
And I run šŸƒā€ā™‚ļømost days.

And after eight years of living with heart failure,
Iā€™d found someone who shared my mindset.

Weā€™d refused to give up easily.
Weā€™d fought our way back.

And although we arenā€™t able to do
everything weā€™d done before —
we push our boundaries every day.

I can “pass” as a healthy adult.
I run half-marathons because I enjoy them.

Thatā€™s why Iā€™m publicly out as living withĀ #heartfailure.

A young person, newly-diagnosed with heart failure
Shouldnā€™t have to wait eight years to meet someone
who has found a way to thrive.

Most days, I talk aboutĀ #thoughtleadership
which is about making the invisible, visible.

But life and thought leadership are way more complex
than just *what* we do at work.

The ideas we advocate are deeply tied to who we are and
how we choose to live.

Thought leadership, is a deeply human (and vulnerable) activity.

Our ability to create impact isn’t random.
It’s defined by what we choose to make visible.


I write about:
#ThoughtLeadershipĀ #OrgTLĀ andĀ #Brand